The Real Difference Between Boys and Girls

As a good postfeminist-era mom, I certainly didn't push my son toward trucks and my daughter toward tutus. If anything, I went out of my way to avoid giving them gender-stereotyped toys, offering glittery finger paint to my son and trains to my daughter. But it didn't matter: My son turned his doll's crib into a race car and my daughter was obsessed with shoes.

Even though I'm a psychologist who specializes in early education, it took having kids to make me realize that sex differences aren't just the stuff of Brady Bunch reruns. In fact, one study found that when 18-month-old boys and girls were shown pictures of a doll and a vehicle, for example, most of the girls opted for the doll, while the majority of the boys chose the vehicle. And while 18 months is old enough to have been influenced by stereotyped gifts, research suggests that many of the differences we see are evident from birth, and may even be hardwired. And that's just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to gender research. To see what else I unearthed, read on. Do you recognize your little XY or XX babe in what the science says?

It's a Boy!
If you've got a James or Brian at home, you've probably already learned that boys love action -- watching it and being a part of it (hint: stock up on Band-Aids!). But they're also more emotional than the stereotypes give them credit for. Here, some of the milestones and traits you can look forward to as your little man grows:

They like motion. According to psychologists at the University of Cambridge in England, boys prefer to watch mechanical motion over human motion. When they gave 12-month-old boys the choice of looking at people talking or windshield wipers moving, you can guess which the tots picked. And it turns out that baby boys are more adept at keeping track of moving objects; recent research shows that boys are about two months ahead of girls when it comes to figuring out the laws of motion (that if you roll a ball under a couch, say, it will take a few seconds to pop out on the other side).

They've got the moves. You know that old saying, "Girls are talkers, boys are walkers"? Well, it's only half true. Girls do talk first, but boys are likely to start walking -- and hit all the major motor milestones -- around the same time as girls. It's easy to see how this misconception arose: Boys squirm, kick, and wiggle more than their female counterparts. To wit, according to new research, infant boys are more likely to end up in the ER for injuries. But all that activity does not pay off in meeting early-childhood milestones any sooner. (Boys' gross motor skills do take off, however, during the preschool years, at which point they outpace their female peers in most measures of physical ability.)

They're more emotional than you think. There is some evidence that boys tend to be more easily agitated than girls and have a harder time self-soothing. According to one study, even when 6-month-old boys appeared as calm as the girls in the face of frustration, measures of heart rate and breathing suggested that they were actually experiencing greater distress.

They love a crowd. Boys prefer looking at groups of faces (future teammates, perhaps?) rather than individual ones. In fact, given the choice, newborn boys would rather look at a mobile than a single face.

They're (comparatively) fearless. Boys express fear later than girls, and less often. According to a recent survey, the parents of boys ages 3 to 12 months were much less likely than the parents of girls the same age to report that their child startles in response to loud noises or stimuli. Another study revealed that when moms made a fearful face as their 12-month-olds approached a toy, the boys disregarded the mom and went for the plaything anyway. Girls slowed their approach.

MAZISHI YA HUSSEIN (SHARO MILIONEA)

SHARO MILIONEA HATUNAE TENA DUNIANI

Msanii wa Maigizo na Muimbaji Sharo Milionea amefariki Dunia kwenye ajali akiwa anatokea Dar kuelekea Tanga njiani Muheza ndipo alipo pata ajali.

Kiss of my Love

Your beauty overwhelms me
As I wrap my arms around you
I press your softness tight
Great passion fills my inner being
I'm captured in your embrace
Your eyes control my very soul
The touch of your lips, heaven
Forever frozen in time
All else fades into nothing

LOVE STORY SMS

Love Means... (a girl and guy were speeding over 100 mph on a motorcycle)
Girl: Slow down. I'm scared.
Guy: No this is fun.
Girl: No its not. Please, it's too scary!
Guy: Then tell me you love me.
Girl: Fine, I love you. Slow down! Guy: Now give me a big hug. (Girl hugs him)
Guy: Can you take my helmet off and put it on? It's bugging me.
In the paper the next day: A motorcycle had crashed into a building because of break failure. Two people were on the motorcycle, but only one survived. The truth was that halfway down the road, the guy realized that his breaks broke, but he didn't want to let the girl know. Instead, he had her say she loved him, felt her hug one last time, then had her wear his helmet so she would live even though it meant he would die.

MC SMITH OCHENDO DROPS NEW VIDEO & AUDIO TRACK!!!

Nollywood actor Mc Smith Ochendo drops new musical video – ONYE EZE FEAT. MARVELOUS BENJI.

Onye Eze is a Grant Amehin Films production, powered by One Unit Media, presented to you by Guru Recordz. Mc Smith proves he
is indeed a multi-talented act with this great video. Awesome collaboration with Marvelous Benji .

Enjoy.

PS: FIND ATTACHED ART COVER

Check out video link

YouTube - http://youtu.be/6uwVgUjE8-c

Here are the audio links

iROKING -  http://iroking.com/track/9147/mc-smith-ochendo
Download -  http://bit.ly/SohDmU

EBEN DROPS NEW TRACK!!!

Emmanuel Benjamin aka Eben or Mr. Phenomenon drops new track – ALL THE WAY Feat. Lord E.

Only a few days ago he released the video for this awesome gospel track - All The Way, which is presented to you by Hammer House Records.
Now fans can get to have the MP3 slamming on the site and downloaded onto their mobiles.

“…we go dey hail, hail your name, day by day, all the way…”

Enjoy!

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Here are the links

YouTube - http://youtu.be/QGhkvggAwqo
iROKING -  http://iroking.com/track/9149/all-the-way
Download -  http://bit.ly/UoJ7bV